4 Habits That Are Killing Your Dreams

4 Habits That Are Killing Your Dreams


Our habits play an important role in determining how our lives turn out to be. If you are not where you want to be, it's quite likely that one of your habits is responsible for it.


Our success, our failure-- everything depends on our habits. Good habits will bring constructive changes, while bad ones will keep you stuck in one place and will not let you move ahead.


With time, bad habits become an integral part of us, which then becomes difficult to get rid of. So, to move ahead in life you need to break these chains of bad habits, and to break them, you need to realize what are your bad habits that are ruining your dreams.


Not sure what's keeping you stuck? Well, here are the 4 most common dream-killers.

Book Review: The Transformation: Discovering Wholeness and Healing After Trauma by Dr. James .S. Gordon

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Book review: The Transformation by Dr. James S Gordon. | Image source: Dr. James S Gordon.


A few months ago, I received an ebook for my honest review. As soon as I read the book title, I knew I had to read it!


This book came my way at the right time because I was looking for a good book on mental/emotional trauma. The effects of trauma have always intrigued me, and I wanted to learn more about it. 


After reading this book, I must say I really enjoyed this book! It really does justice to the book title.

6 Simple Resolutions for This New Year

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Here we are, once again-- making all the resolutions and hoping for the best. 

I hope this year was great for you. Speaking for myself, it was a bit bumpy for me but I'm taking away some important life lessons from this year to the next. I know that counts as a good thing, and so I won't call this year a total bummer. What I learned this year is going to help me make the coming year better, and I'm really looking forward to it!

I'm sure you've decided on some of your resolutions that you're going to make (or already started with... Jeez I'm late to the party!). I've decided that this year my resolutions are going to be really basic. You know, sometimes it's better to go back to basics, and that's exactly what I'm doing this year. I want to bring about some basic changes in my habits.

This year I've decided my resolutions to be more health-focused, but not just physical but also mental health. I'm dedicating this year to PEACE. That's my theme for this year. So, if you've not thought of any resolutions or if you want to include some peace in your life then you can include some of my resolutions into yours. And trust me, if you are millennial, you need it!

How to Create a Schedule (That Actually Serves You)


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How to Create a Schedule

 How do you create a good daily routine? Why do you need a daily routine? What are the things you should consider while creating a routine for yourself? This post will deal with all these questions.

You, my friend, need a schedule:
  1. if you struggle with achieving your goals,
  2. you procrastinate a lot,
  3. you spend more time watching Netflix than working, i.e don't realize how much time your are spending on what,
  4. you tend to forget things, or if
  5. you overwork.
A schedule can turn your day around and make you super productive. It makes sure that you do everything that you're supposed to do.

A lot of people think that schedules put a lot of restriction on you. This, however, is not true. It, in fact, creates free time while making sure that you are not missing on the important things.

5 Things I've Learned About Motivation

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We all struggle with motivation, and here are a few things I've learned from that struggle.


Do you struggle with motivation? I do sometimes. Most people do.

It's a tricky thing, I'd say. Sometimes it's available in abundance that you end up doing a week's work in advance, and sometimes you're looking for reasons to get out of the bed.

Last year I decided to add a few new habits, and boy did I struggle! I ended up learning a few things about motivation during this whole experience. It's quite interesting to me because if you know the factors that affect motivation, you can manipulate yourself to stay motivated a little more.

And from my experience, here are the things that affects motivation the most:

Vertical Vs Horizontal Breathing: Did You Know You're Breathing Incorrectly?

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Are You Breathing Correctly?

Are you breathing right now? Well, of course you are! But what if I tell you that you're breathing wrong?

 I know what you're thinking: "What does that even mean? "Breathing wrong?" 

How is it even possible. You've been breathing since the time you were born, so how can someone breathe wrong. It's one of the innate things hardwired in our brain by birth, so how can someone breathe wrong?

All of them are valid thoughts, but still I would say that you are breathing wrong, and you have been breathing wrong most of your life.

So, what exactly do I mean by that? Lets explore this issue in this post.

The Best Method to Tackle Procrastination: The POMODORO Technique

If procrastination is your best friend then you should read this post. Why you ask? Because today we're going to discuss a productivity technique that is one of the best techniques to cut procrastination and be all productive!

The Pomodoro technique was discovered by Francesco Cirillo in the late 1980s when he was a university student himself. The technique is named after the tomato-shaped kitchen timer he used back then (Pomodoro= Tomato in Italian).

Ever since its discovery, this method has been adopted by millions of people, and they all swear by its effectiveness. So do I. It is effective. How much? Well, that depends from person to person. But before you start judging whether it's effective or not, have a look into what pomodoro method exactly is.